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20/02/2012
Psychological background of genetic parents for upbringing a child born thank to Surrogacy program. The first child in a family at any age of genetic parents changes self-sentiment of such. Psychological background as for forthcoming parenthood and conscious want to become parents thank to Surrogacy program are of high importance. Parenthood and child’s upbringing have very deep biological d social background. However, it appears in human culture as already formed in course of historical development of society, a social procurement which determines the self-consciousness and feelings of both parents. Contradictions between social expectations of a society as for the role of a mother and a father and a real opportunity of their realization make a serious problem in psychological unpreparedness of married couples for parenthood. All this can be complicated by the necessity to combine professional and family obligations. А. Lunacharskiy used to write: "In view of some economic conditions and proper education, self-analysis and self-discipline, a person understands that it’s not easy to be a mother and a father. This is one of the super finest creation art". A successful completion of a Surrogacy program is childbirth under the condition of thorough preparation of all the participants, but not only a surrogate mother, both physiologically and psychologically, for it. On the one hand, genetic parents are eager to have a child, but on the other hand, they are afraid of changes being imminent in their life. But there is nothing more natural, than giving love and care to a small creature which call you mommy and daddy in the nearest future. Lack of experience in child’s care is compensated by inner intuition, due to which parents begin to understand, feel and guess the demands of a baby starting from the first days of its life. Genetic parents are to get accustomed to be responsible for life and happiness of their child, born by the surrogate mother. The initial stage of preparation for educational process is training of calm reaction for various stress conditions. Psychological surrounding in a family is a key condition for both a child and genetic parents. Sometimes, it seems to genetic fathers, in such couples, that their loved wives are becoming estranged. Then comes jealousy to a child, while a wife paid all her attention and free time to him only before. That is why, it is very important that both parents being involved in the process of baby’s caring. Child’s appearance is also connected with roles redistribution in a family, as an awareness of genetic parents as to be a mother and a father comes directly after child’s birth by a surrogate mother. Discussion by both parents their future parenthood and common planning are of high importance here. It will strengthen family relationship and teach them understanding one another. A fist child stays also in connection with times of frequent doubts of future parents about its health, as there is a plenty of negative information is presented in mass media resources. It is important to understand, that psychological approach, confidence in cloudless future and calming psychological surrounding are the essential components of prosperous completion of a Surrogacy program. Article is issued by: Chuprinova Viktoriya – Director General of Surrogacy Center; Tzokota Viktoriya – Master of Psychology, Psychologist of Surrogacy Center |
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